Confidence...

Someone told me yesterday after reading my blog that no matter how hot the accessories, the greatest one is a smile. A smile exudes confidence and confidence wears better than any jeans, dress, shoes or bag. It is the one thing that differenciates you from the pack.

After a long conversation with a former work-study student of mine today she said to me "you may not be a victorias secret model but the point is to know how to dress for what u got and u do that well...." she also said "let me tell you something... its all about presentation. Men and everyone else around sees when you are self concious and it gives the wrong impression. A girl needs to be comfortable with her own body in order to be presentable. Like for example, my cousin is not fat, but neither is she skinny however she is really self conscous and acts accordingly. On the other hand her friend is twice her size and is comfortable w/her body. Whenever we go out her friend always gets more guys than my cousin meanwhile my cousin in like 20 times prettier in the face and body"

Confidence means alot and without it a person can appear ugly. So smile! Let your confidence shine through.

Speaking of Panties.....

Why do we think that a thong is the only sexy underwear? Not everyone can wear a thong and not every thong can be worn by everyone. Thongs are sexy, that is no question but there are other options that are just as sexy and still provides some coverage.



Lets take the boy shorts, this style is an option that can be just as sexy as a thong, it provides some coverage and it also leaves room for the imagination. Some of my favorite boy shorts can be found at http://www.lanebryant.com/.



Another option is the cheekies. This provides less back coverage but since its wider at the waist, it compliments your curves better. Some options can be found at http://www.hipsandcurves.com/ and their sizes go up to size 6X.



The boy shorts and the cheekies are, of course, for those days that you want to feel sexy and those special nights, but for those of us who may need all over coverage most of the time, may I suggest the Body By Victoria brand at http://www.victoriassecret.com//. It has the ability to stretch and hold you and they go up to size XL.

Can I have a bra to go with those panties?

Girls, before you buy your next bra, some tips for the right fit. Get measured by a professional bra sales person and buy your right size. It is not a bad thing to wear be a D or a DD, so don't squeeze your 'girls' in a C cup. The right bra can improve the look of your outfit and dramatically make you appear smaller.

My personal recommendations for those D's, DD's and DDD's the Playtex brand "Thank Goodness it Fits" bra. This bra is good for everyday use and is especially great on the shoulders. Although this is not a bra you want to wear when you want to feel sexy, it is practical and it does the job well. Some other well fitted bras can be found at www.curvation.com a clothing line introduced by Queen Latifah with bras ranging in different sizes, colors and that does different things from lifting, minimizing and smoothing.

For those bras you want to experiment with and feel sexy, check out the Very Sexy line at www.victoriassecret.com. They do carry sizes for those of us who are a little more endowed than others. Also check out www.fredericks.com to find some sexy bras (not for everyday use, of course!) and it also would not hurt to add matching panties for those special moments.

Happy Shopping!

Who says you can't be size-healthy and graceful?

Dont you just hate when someone who knowingly cannot fit in the seat next to you on the train tries to fit into it anyway? Size healthy girls, dont do that! Lets be graceful and either ask someone to move over or if you cant fit just stand.

Once you are hot, any man will get up and give you a seat. So you should not have to ask!

Never leave the house unkept!

Home clothes are for staying home. When going out, CHANGE YOUR CLOTHES! What could be so hard in changing into decent clothes to leave your house, even if it's just around the corner!!

Girls, size healthy or not, please make an effort to comb your hair, change into proper attire and as always, never leave the house without something on the lips. Some plain colored lip gloss works fine and yes! even if its around the corner.

Some lip gloss for your trip around the corner:
Shinylicious by Maybelline www.maybelline.com
Juicy Tubes by Lancome www.lancome.com
and one of my favorites Nars Duo Lipgloss only at Sephora www.sephora.com

Where is it?

There were a number of you that loved the idea of wearing a two-piece even though you are not Naomi or Heidi and wanted to know where is it?

They wanted to know where can they find plus sized swim cover-ups.

Well below are a number of links to sites where you can find the right swim cover-up to compliment that two-piece and enhance those curves! Happy shopping!

http://www.jessicalondon.com/Plus-Size-Cover-Ups-and-Accessories.aspx?DeptId=14468

http://www.obxsunwear.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=CTGY&Category_Code=PC

http://www.alwaysforme.com/coverups2.html

http://www.generousfashions.com/catalog/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=73

Whats in a Jeans?

The answer: Everything! Pair a nice Jeans with a blazer and a tshirt with the right accessories and you will be a winner! To make it casual add flat sandals a tank top. For those who are self concious about their arms, add a shrug or a blazer.

Visit http://www.mvm.com/ to try your clothes on a virtual model. Put in your statistics and voila! Your replica does all the work for you!

1. Try on your Jeans


2. Try on your top


3. Most importantly ask yourself, what look am I going for?


4. Pick the perfect shoe that compliments the jeans and top


5. Add a blazer or a shrug


6. Throw on some accessories (Remember keep accessories at a minimum, keep the hair and shoes hot!!!)

You Look Fabulous!

What to Read?

So you are relaxing on the beach or trying to enjoy a long train ride. What to read? Well I got Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert as a christmas gift and it is one of the most memorable gifts I have received. It grabs your attention from beginning to end and gives you a look into the life of somebody with as many problems as any one of us. Although we cant all go to Rome, India and Bali, reading this book will help us fanticize about it!



Happy Reading!



Reviews:
NEW YORK TIMES BOOK REVIEW
“If a more likable writer than Gilbert is currently in print, I haven't found him or her...Gilbert's prose is fueled by a mix of intelligence, wit and colloquial exuberance that is close to irresistible, and makes the reader only too glad to join the posse of friends and devotees who have the pleasure of listening in.” by Jennifer Egan
TIME MAGAZINE
“An engaging, intelligent and entertaining memoir…her account of her time in India is beautiful and honest and free of patchouli-scented obscurities.” by Lev Grossman
LOS ANGELES TIMES
“Gilbert’s journey is full of mystical dreams, visions and uncanny coincidences…Yet for every ounce of self-absorption her classical New-Age journey demands, Gilbert is ready with an equal measure of intelligence, humor and self-deprecation…Gilbert’s wry, unfettered account of her extraordinary journey makes even the most cynical reader dare to dream of someday finding God deep within a meditation cave in India, or perhaps over a transcendent slice of pizza.” by Erika Schickel
SEATTLE POST-Intelligencer
"This is an intriguing and substantive journey recounted with verve, humor and insight. Others have preceded Gilbert in writing this sort of memoir, but few indeed have done it better." by John Marshall

Spanx

I know we all are happy with the way we look, but sometimes we may need just a little help! My suggestion: Spanx! To help keep everything smooth and tight, put Spanx under your clothing and who could tell?

My favorite one to wear is the high waisted mid length Spanx although there are many different ones you can choose.

Visit http://www.spanx.com/ and find your perfect fit.

Here is a picture of my favorite Spanx....

Who says a size 16 cannot wear a two-piece swimsuit?

So the summer is here and you are preparing for vacation. You need to pack swimsuits for that trip to the Caribbean. I hate those swimsuits with the skirts attached and I always wanted to wear a two-piece but how can I when I am not Heidi Klum or Naomi Campbell? Well all you 'size healthy' girls, stop whining!!! Help is here!



You CAN wear a two-piece even if you are a size 16. The key is to choose a cover-up that enhances your curves. Make sure it is sheer and it can be long or short. Here are a few ideas...

What to wear?

So you have a party to attend where your classmates from 1988 will be. You want to look your best but the years have been cruel and you may have gained a pound here or there. Do you stay at home sulking in fear of not facing your old classmates or do you pick up the pieces and pick out an outfit that says "Look at me Im still beautiful!".

Here are some 'size healthy' outfit ideas for your class reunion. Remember accessories are key but keep them at minimum and make sure your shoes and hairstyles are hotttt!